As our bus roared between El Paso and Dallas the land was becoming flatter and
flatter. Our bus leapt towards the wonderful, open spaces of Texas. It was hard
to tell distances since the horizon seemed to blend in with the sky.
The only relief was an occasional Burma Shave sign. The four-line verse
was written one line at a time on a separate sign posted along the side of the
road. Traveling a normal speed you had time to leisurely read one verse at a
time and then the next.
One of my favorites was “ The
answer to a maiden’s prayer is not a chin of stubby hair” Another good one I
recall was “To kiss a mug that’s like a cactus takes more nerve than it does
practice” Soon everyone on the bus was singing the rhymes out together.
On that trip, each time we left a new terminal, everyone just gave their first
name to the passengers around them and announced their destination. Mom usually
asked the young serviceman sitting closest to us how long since he’d seen his
family. The answers varied to a few months to sometimes a couple of years.
There was no air conditioning on the buses then, but I don’t remember it being
hot or uncomfortable. Deodorant wasn’t a big grooming item back then either.
Probably as a kid I didn’t notice those things as much as the grownups
did.
Nearly all of the fellows smoked in those days during the war. Cigarettes were
provided to the men in the service and most of them were addicted by the time
they were discharged. A smoke
filled bus was something we just took for granted and no one thought of
complaining.
When our bus pulled into the Dallas terminal we had been on the road for four
days. Ileane said goodbye to a young, blond sailor she had been sitting with.
They stood talking quietly for a long time.
Earlier, at a little café in Midland at the depot, some one put a nickel in the
jukebox and the strains of “Always” came on. The blonde sailor had risen
from the booth filled with other sailors and never taking his eyes off her, he
walked to our table. He held out his hand, silently. Without looking at mom for
permission, Ileane rose and took his hand for the slow dance. I don’t know
about my sister, but I was certainly impressed.
The station in Dallas was crowded and I kept expecting Mom to tell Ileane to
come on, but she seemed to hesitate. I wondered why. Looking back on it now, I
have come to realize that she knew these mini friendships were important to the
girls and the young fellows too. They
caused no harm.
In Dallas, Mom led us directly to the rest room to get cleaned up.
Sponge baths were becoming routine and easier. As we approached the rest
room, I stopped short. The sign above one door read White Ladies and the sign
above the other door stated Colored Ladies. I looked down and in front of the
rest room were water fountains with similar signs. White or colored. “But why,
Mom” I asked over and over. I
think my mother was a shook up as I was.
Her slow reply was, “I don’t know,
honey, I just don’t know.” My twelve-year-old world was expanding. We
continued to see the signs of segregation on our travels through Texas. If the
black soldiers went to the back of the bus, as now when thing about it, I’m
sure they probably did, I wasn’t aware of it. Later on in our journey as our
route swung north, the signs of segregation gradually disappeared.
Actually, my world had started expanding a couple of years earlier in Phoenix
when I was on an outing with my Girl Scout troop. Our troop had spent every
Saturday collecting scrap metal and paper for the war effort.
Now as our reward, we were allowed to go on a cookout to work on one of
our projects.
We noticed the men working nearby as we
started cooking our breakfast, but we paid little attention.
Soon the bacon was sizzling in the skillets as the pancakes turned a
golden brown around the edges.
“Nothing tastes as good as the first meal
you cook yourself, especially on an open fire.” Observed our patient leader,
Mrs. Taylor.
The Girl Scouts of troop eleven were earning
their cooking badges!
Earlier that day, a chilly Saturday morning
in December, our group of excited ten and eleven year old girls, along with
their leader, had gathered at the bus stop. We carried large paper sacks filled
with skillets, mixing bowls and assorted groceries….everything necessary to
cook a pancake breakfast. Several
Mothers had generously contributed precious ration stamps so we could buy bacon,
butter and even a little brown sugar for homemade syrup.
After transferring city buses three times,
we arrived at our destination, Papago Park, a beautiful desert refuge. As we
started hiking up the dirt road into the park filled with paloverde trees, smoky
mesquite bushes and massive red rock formations, an U. S. army truck filled with
German prisoners of war passed us, heading into the park.
“There goes those German,” one of the
girls said, contemptuously. “I hate them!”
“Why did they have to start the war?”
another complained. “My dad’s been gone for so long, almost three years.”
We all had fathers, brothers, uncles or
someone close fighting in Europe.
After breakfast was over, one of the girls
started a scouting song as we cleaned up our cooking site. One by one, we all
joined in. Our leader started another and our songfest continued for a while.
Suddenly, we heard male voices! A beautiful
melody sung by deep, strong voices filled the desert air and drifted down to us.
We looked up to see the cavernous natural
shell in the red sediment boulders, called “Hole in the Rock”, filled with
the German prisoners and their guards.
Then they finished their song, we began another. They reciprocated with one more
haunting melody. We couldn’t understand a word they were singing, but to our
delight, we exchanged songs throughout the morning in the clear, bright air!
Then, one of the girls began Silent Night
and we all joined in. A few moments of silence followed and…. The familiar
melody flowed back to us.
“Stille Nacht, Heilige Nacht:…..
“How could they know our Christmas
carols” one of the girls asked our leader. They were our country’s enemies!
We continued to listen in awe with feelings
of peace and joy, and even a little bit of understanding; we took home more that
day than our cooking badges.

